Polyamory may mean love with no limits...but it doesn't mean love with no challenges. And, for many, those challenges have become more....well, challenging...in the midst of a pandemic. Nesting partners face new strains, and non-nesting partners face new barriers to seeing each other. And, all the while, it can feel like there's no one you can talk to who can actually understand what you're going through.
I help polycules, couples, and individuals make their way through what can be a minefield of intense emotions. I understand non-monogamous relationships can be ethical and healthy. It can be a difficult path but the rewards are worth the effort.
Whether it's helping develop a sensitivity to scheduling, creating a safe place to discuss powerful emotions, or finding ways to tune more deeply into your partner(s) and yourself, therapy can help you rediscover passion and joy.
I titled this page "polyamory", but there are many different forms of consensual and ethical non-monogamy. I can help you find the form that works for you, and works for your relationship(s).
I've learned that relationships frequently run into problems when people haven't really talked out what form of non-monogamy works for them. How much emotional connection do you want with other partners? Do you want relationship anarchy or a primary relationship? None of these answers is wrong. None of them is intrinsically right. The trick is finding what structure is right for YOU.
Together, we can find the path that works best for you.